Sooo i removed the whole shifter assembly and made sure everything was not stupid tight but tight. Loosening the connections at the reverses and it made it return a lil more but not what I expected.
The selector at the transmission is hard to move up and down. Remove the cable and it is super smooth and require little force to move. Seems like maybe the cable?
Remove the tunnel piece and added screws on the sides to stop flexing. Reinstalled the cap with rivnuts and the flexing is gone.
Installed seats and dash panel as well
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